....

Our veins are attached to each other

Nerves, wrapped in pieces of flesh

Sense movements of thoughts

I swallow the echo of your pain

Drink your body

Which is not a piece of meet

Anymore

But liquid of gloomy mind

You gulp my breath.

Before you suck the rest of

My life syrup

I cut you

Each nerve of the tree

One by one

Your scream splits my heart

In tiny pieces

My bleeding wound

Squeals, calling

Your ailing trunk

I start to breath

passion & aggression?


















Bugs Bunny know a gremlin




Our Pop Culture - Leopold




Phrases in Passive Aggression

Some general subjective collections

"Take It Easy" -- super common phrase in Netherlands in situations which become even modestly heated. Suggests that security will be brought in if immediate quieting of intensity does not happen right away.

"Darf Man Nicht" - German phrase. Means 'not allowed' mainly used in the context of if there is a rule you can not break it, unless you invent another rule.

'რას ვქნა....' - Georgian phrase ' what can i do...' suggesting the answer -basically nothing.... - giving responsibility to someone or something else.

'Не положено!'- Russian phrase, similar to 'not allowed', but in different context, there are no rules, it is a fact and you can't change anything about it, so better obey.

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more to come...

When does "Passive Aggressive" make sense?

.... in the psychological realm of this... 


At what point do we see the difference between what is called "passive-aggressive" behavior and what is called "depression"?

When is an action truly "passive-aggressive" and not really to be understood as belonging to  "depression"?





How does the interpretation of actions color how it is responded to? 


According to this site, these are key traits of "passive aggressive" behavior: 


(1) procrastinates, 
(2) sulks or argues when asked to do something he doesn't want to do, 
(3) works inefficiently on unwanted tasks, 
(4) complains without justification of unreasonable demands, 
(5) "forgets" obligations, 
(6) believes he is doing a much better job than others think, 
(7) resents useful suggestions, 
(8) fails to do his share, or 
(9) unreasonably criticizes authority figures




I have also read that passive-aggressive behavior is characterized by a kind of pretentious resistance. For example: one acts as if one agrees, but then in effect makes it impossible to go forward (by being reluctant to do what was agreed, by avoiding it, etc. etc.)


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It does seem to dove-tail around ideas of being-productive. 


And these are often related to issues of "depression" in other ways of interperting such 'sluggishness' and dis-interest. 












The very concept of aggression














Today, things on my mind with this project....




Investigation of the concepts of aggression



Rather then repeating the assumptions that exist of it as a thing itself.  Which can be done. and which will be a part of our research: to learn what these are...

but rather then working to simply seek out 'understanding' -- as if "aggression" is simply a thing to debate and to understand...

I wonder:

What happens if we create a space to reflect on the very concept of it, itself?

How did this concept arise?

Where it is rooted in? Social Darwinism?

Is it a positivist idea (by "positivist" I mean works from and creates an imagination that isolates the 'human' subject from the cultural/political structure).

This then leads to questions of what we mean by "aggression"?

Is it always about a 'foreign' body? Like in: "an aggressive form of cancer".

When is it a good thing? Only in arenas of competition? Like in: "Football player Sean O'Day displayed an aggressive command of the field today", or "He's very a very aggressive player". (also this suggests issues of gender around "aggression")

Because, I am wondering:

perhaps this concept -- the current way of isolating it out, as a thing that simply stands alone, from other relations -- creates in a way, a strange sort of imagination and fantasy structure about how 'aggression' should work? It assumes normalcy.

Perhaps it has implicit in it, certain ideas of what being-normal is?

I.e. a competitive male individual who is transparent and free, who is above history, politics, weird conflicts. Who is perfectly rational. But in a certain way.